Type Dating
I have a friend who is down on love these days. She has had some experiences with men breaking things off with her lately, mainly due to her spiritual beliefs versus theirs.
She is a beautiful and sexy woman. Her beliefs center more around the idea of being the best you can be and not hurting others, and she is against the idea of a formal religion for herself. Unfortunately, she seems to find men to date who are very religious. Or those who are on the cusp of becoming religious, and they “find God� once she has been with them for awhile. Once they realize what they believe fully, they want her to come around to their religion with them, or they break up with her because of vastly incompatible beliefs.
That might not be fair, but I can certainly understand it. Relationships and marriage are hard enough without having such differing beliefs, particularly with something as emotional as religion. What to do, then?
Get out of that box! Break the mold! Don’t go out with that type of man again! Get on a different dating site and make it clear that you do NOT want to date men who fit that pattern!
I think that many of us “type date.� We go out with someone without realizing that they are very similar to the last person we dated, or even to the last person to whom we were married. It is just NOT HEALTHY to continue this pattern. If it didn’t work out with the former, it’s not likely to work out with the next.
So STOP type dating, okay? That’s my assignment for you! Go find a hot man who is DIFFERENT! (uh…Or a woman…If you’re a man)
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