Romance Style

by JillM

I was perusing psychcentral.com and decided to take a Romance Style quiz. And the results…my my! I knew I was screwed up, just not how screwed up! What were your results? Be brave!

Your romantic attachment style: Cool and Dismissive

You have suggested that you have a dismissing style toward attachments, that they are really not too important to you. It is likely that you get along in your relationships, but don’t invest yourself very much in them. You are also likely not to experience a great deal of distress in life and you probably don’t experience feelings that are extremely intense, compared to people around you. Compared to them, you probably are not as excitable and tend not to get worked up over things.

This is a perfectly fine way to be and it probably keeps you on a very even keel. However, someday you may find that you are starting to feel lonely and that you would like to have closer relationships. If this should happen, but you find that you are unable to achieve the closeness you want, you may want to engage the services of a professional psychotherapist. This is the kind of life change that a professional can really help with.

Remember that attachment styles exist in degrees, and in this test, the degree to which a style is true for you will make a difference in your interpretation. Everyone has to have some style or another, and the features of any one style only become maladaptive when they exist in the extreme.

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Posted in General on March 6th, 2007

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  1. Ivy Says:
    March 8th, 2007 at 2:33 pm

    Um, wow. “Maladaptive”? Are you kidding? They got all that out of, what, 20 questions?

    I’ve gotta try this. :)

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